My membership has expired and I am not renewing.
I have been a widower since 2005 and not in a relationship since then, although I did make friends for a couple of years with someone from this website in 2006. I've enjoyed being single but on balance prefer being in a relationship where each bathes in the sunshine of the others love.The things that I enjoy doing include walking up Loughrigg Fell near Ambleside, playing Table Tennis, dancing (5 Rhythms), helping friends and family, asanas, pranayama, meditation, yogic flying and giving deeksha. I don't very often watch live TV but last night had a good laugh at a friends house rewatching "A Fish Called Wanda". I'm a fairly quite person, a good listener, caring, thoughtful, affectionate and fun loving. My Son of 33, lives with me due to not having sufficient energy to work full time and support himself since finishing Universisty in 2010.
If you would like to have a chat on Skype then my account is alan.geoffrey.hanson
I look forward to hearing from you.
I just read the following :
"Most of you reading this are not really ready. Know how I know that ? Because if you were truly ready, you'd already have the relationship you want. Really. If you were already over your last one, had done the personal work on yourself, and were truly ready, you'd be like a magnet for the perfect relationship, and that relationship would come to you almost instantly.
You won't admit your'e not ready. You'll only notice you weren't ready in retrospect - once you are really ready. You'll finally meet the one and then you'll say to youself, "Oh, this is what 'ready' feels like"
It's OK if you're not ready!
Dating will take you where you want to go, if you use it for the learning experience it is. I suggest you stop thinking of dating as a search for "the one" and start thinking of it as a journey toward being the person you want to be - a person who can attract the one you really want. You must be that amazing person to attract that other amazing person."
From : Dating to change your life - Lola Jones
I hope you find that helpful.
