Becoming a member is FREE and gives you all our membership benefits.  You only pay when you want to contact someone or read their message.

Once you've joined you can browse other members' details. If you see someone you like the sound of you will need to Upgrade your Account to that of a Full (Paid) Member in order to contact them.

In order to upgrade your account to that of a Full (Paid) Member, login and then click on UPGRADE above your profile image this will then take you to an upgrade to a Full (Paid) Member page.  Please then use the form to select your membership length in the Duration section. then enter your details and click on 'pay  now', this will take you to our secure payment area..

Here's how much it will cost to have access to other members:

• 60 days unlimited access for only £30
• 120 days unlimited access for £45
• 180 days unlimited access for £60

(this with be converted to our local currency if outside of the UK)

Payment can be made by debit or credit card on our secure payment page. We accept Visa (Credit/Debit/Delta/Electron) and Mastercard (all except Maestro). If you would prefer to pay by cheque or postal order then please contact us.

Your access won't be renewed automatically but we'll send you a reminder 14 and 7 days before the due date. If you re-join between 14 and 7 days we'll give you an 'Early Bird' bonus of 30 days extra.